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[h=4]Details of Kayla Mueller's final months emerge[/h]PHOENIX — In the story of Kayla Mueller's life in the months before and after she was abducted in Syria, at key moments she was with another person, according to friends, U.S. officials and news reports.![]()
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A friend of Kayla Mueller, the young woman who was taken hostage by ISIS, describes her as "fearless" and "an incredible person." VPC
Kayla Mueller(Photo: Family photo)
PHOENIX — In the story of Kayla Mueller's life in the months before and after she was abducted in Syria, at key moments she was with another person, according to friends, U.S. officials and news reports.
After Mueller moved to Turkey to serve refugees fleeing a war-torn region, she spent time with a Syrian boyfriend.
When the aid worker crossed into a dangerous part of Syria in August 2013, she was traveling to a hospital with someone described as a friend.
And after Mueller was taken hostage by Islamic State militants on that trip, a man who had been with her returned to her captors and put himself at risk in an effort to win her freedom.
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Now it is clear that each account refers to the same man: a now-33-year-old Syrian photographer who worked for years to document the civil war in his country and was known to her family and friends as Mueller's boyfriend, and at times even as her fiance or husband.
“He's a passionate person who really cares about the suffering in Syria. He has done a lot of humanitarian work with Kayla. They were very close.”
Rev. Kathleen Day, a pastor at Northern Arizona University
Interviews with a family spokeswoman and half a dozen friends and acquaintances around the world outline the Arizona woman's last months of freedom: Mueller's travels with her boyfriend, her understanding of the dangers posed in the region and her relentless determination to reach the downtrodden, in Turkish refugee camps and in Syria itself.
And though the man has not done public interviews about Mueller, the social-media accounts in his name show gut-wrenching farewells to her, as well as harrowing posts that describe him being freed twice from Islamic State prisons.
The interviews and public social-media posts paint a picture of a man who cared deeply for Mueller and became ensnared in a place that has descended into anarchy.
The Arizona Republic is withholding the name of Mueller's boyfriend out of caution for his safety. At least one friend says the name is an identity he assumed to lessen the risk of reporting in Syria.
A family spokeswoman confirmed that the man was Mueller's boyfriend and that her family has been in touch with him, though they have not met.
The man, via Facebook messages, declined requests to speak with The Republic for this story. But he posted a poignant letter to Mueller on Facebook on Wednesday, the day after her family announced it had received proof from the Islamic State, also known as ISIL or ISIS, of the 26-year-old's death.
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"Dear Kayla, I'm not writing her to say goodbye, this is a thank you. Thank you for coming into my life and giving me joy, thank you for loving me and receiving my love in return," he wrote above a photo of Mueller relaxing on a beach, smiling and clutching a Cookie Monster doll to her cheek.
"(Y)ou supported me in everything I did," he wrote, "even if it was extremely stupid. ... I'm writing to tell you I'm sorry about so many things. I'm sorry I didn't 't take better care of you , "I'm sorry I didn't try harder to find the words, to tell you what I was feeling. And how much I loved you.."
Those who knew the couple describe them as driven to see the conflict from as close a vantage point as possible, but also finding time to unwind, meeting with friends and going out in cosmopolitan Istanbul.
Mueller, who grew up in Prescott, Ariz., and by 2013 had volunteered to help impoverished communities in Israel and India, sought to help Syrian children whose families had fled the bloodshed, according to those who met her. Her boyfriend, in addition to his photojournalism, was an activist and filmmaker who assisted foreigners covering the war.
Those who met the couple described them to The Republic as intrepid but also noted worries for their safety, stressing that even being near the Syrian border at that time was tremendously risky.
Molly Hock, 26, who was a roommate with Kayla Mueller at Northern Arizona University, talks about her friend and how much she will miss her. Hock's boyfriend, Kyle NIxon, 31, lends support as the two sit outside the Campus Ministry Center in Flagstaff, reminiscing about Mueller, Wednesday, February 11, 2015.<span style="color: Red;">*</span>(Photo: Tom Tingle/The Arizona Republic)![]()
In this April 28, 2007, photo, high school senior Kayla Mueller marches in a walk in Prescott, Ariz., promoting aid to the Darfur region of Sudan. A statement that appeared on a militant website commonly used by the Islamic State group claimed that Mueller was killed in a Jordanian airstrike on Friday, Feb. 6, 2015, on the outskirts of the northern Syrian city of Raqqa, the militant group's main stronghold. The IS statement could not be independently verified. Prescott Daily Courier, Nathaniel Kastelic)<span style="color: Red;">*</span>(Photo: Nathaniel Kastelic/AP)![]()
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There are differing accounts of how many times Mueller might have crossed the border, but she did it at least once, on the first weekend in August 2013. The couple were kidnapped less than 48 hours later.
The Rev. Kathleen Day, a pastor at Northern Arizona University who knew Mueller well, said the young woman was close friends with the Syrian man and had known him for many years.
Day spoke highly of the man.
"He's a passionate person who really cares about the suffering in Syria," she said. "He has done a lot of humanitarian work with Kayla. They were very close."
EARLIER DAYS
A mutual friend, Amr Ahmed, told The Republic that about five years ago he met Mueller and the photographer in Cairo. Later they went out together when he moved to Istanbul.
A family spokeswoman said Mueller met the man who would become her boyfriend in 2010 on a brief vacation in Cairo, and they kept in touch for two years by Skype and e-mail.
In December 2012, Mueller moved to Turkey and began searching for aid organizations to join.
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She later became a consultant with a program run by Support to Life and worked for a group that collaborated with the Danish Refugee Council, according to statements from those agencies.
“Her heart was in the right place. But, unfortunately, being sort of fresh and new to the conflict zone, especially in a place like Syria, you run into so many different dangers.”
Nicole Tung, freelance photographer
Syrian television journalist Mustafa Abbas, whose family fled the country and who now covers the conflict from Turkey, met Mueller and her boyfriend at a conference about handling the flow of refugees. The group remained friendly.
In an interview, Abbas recalled the man introducing himself as her husband. The couple were not married, a family spokeswoman said, but she agreed that if Abbas' recollection is accurate, it's possible they introduced themselves that way in order to be more acceptable traveling together in a conservative culture.
Over a meal of shawarma, a traditional roasted-meat dish, Abbas chatted with the couple about the dangers facing journalists covering the civil war.
Mueller kept in touch via Facebook and Skype, Abbas said, peppering him for advice on Turkish border cities where she could help refugee children.
At one point, Mueller told Abbas she had gone into a camp in Syria, in Idlib.
Abbas said Mueller knew of the danger. He had related to her an experience covering a sarin-gas attack near Aleppo. And mutual friends at an aid organization warned Mueller against traveling into the country, Abbas said.
" 'Don't go to Syria. Syria is very dangerous to you. Don't go,' " a friend told Abbas on Thursday that the friend had relayed to Mueller.
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Mueller told other people she was eager to get closer to the Syrian border as well.
A first-person account published last week in the British Telegraph was one of the first to describe Mueller's Syrian boyfriend and an early attempt to free her. The writer said Mueller had contacted her asking for advice on how to get into Kilis, one of the largest refugee camps in Turkey.
“He again went inside Syria to look for Kayla. (ISIL) arrested him for the second time and after two months liberated him.”
Mustafa Abbas, Syrian television journalist
A few months later, two female journalists who knew Mueller's boyfriend met the couple.
Nicole Tung, a New York-based freelance photographer, recognized Mueller when she saw the young woman's images broadcast worldwide in recent days.
"My God," she recalled thinking. "I met her."
In April 2013, Tung was on assignment for Vanity Fair in Turkey and Syria. She was with Janine di Giovanni, a Vanity Fair contributing editor and Middle East editor for Newsweek, who was interviewing women who had been sexually assaulted during Syria's civil war.
The journalists recalled their interactions with Mueller during telephone interviews with The Republic.
The Syrian photographer had wanted to meet with di Giovanni and arranged to go for coffee at a hotel terrace in a border city.
Di Giovanni said that the photographer brought along a young woman. It was Mueller. She introduced herself as the man's fiance.
"Her heart was in the right place," Tung said on Wednesday in a phone interview. "But, unfortunately, being sort of fresh and new to the conflict zone, especially in a place like Syria, you run into so many different dangers."
KIDNAPPED
By the time Mueller was kidnapped in August 2013, the increasing risk from Islamic State had forced many foreign journalists, and even Syrians, to suspend travel into the country, Abbas said.
A statement from Support to Life said Mueller left Turkey to go into Syria on a weekend early in August.
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According to the Spanish Doctors Without Borders humanitarian group, Mueller arrived at their hospital in Aleppo on Aug. 3, the first Saturday of the month, with a contractor.
In a statement, the group described the worker as Mueller's friend and noted she was not employed by the aid agency. The group said she was taken hostage while en route to a bus station the next day.
The British journalist to whom Mueller had turned for advice wrote that the kidnapping included Mueller and three men and that one of the men was released soon after.
Such accounts align with the boyfriend's description of his travails with Islamic State to friends, on social media and in interviews before Mueller's captivity became public.
The boyfriend notified friends of his kidnapping and release on Facebook a month after Mueller went missing.
On Sept. 3, 2013, he wrote on his Facebook page that he had been abducted by a group of masked Islamic State militants on Aug. 3, 2013. He was taken on a road from Aleppo, he said, after fixing the Internet service at a Doctors Without Borders hospital.
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The boyfriend did not mention Mueller. No one did, by name, until Feb. 6, when Islamic State identified her.
The boyfriend posted a poem, however, weeks after he left captivity:
My heart is in your detention cell
its lives your pain all day
you are not alone
you are not alone
A RESCUE ATTEMPT?
According to U.S. Rep. Paul Gosar, R-Ariz., whose district includes the Mueller family's home and who was briefed on her situation by U.S. authorities, after Kayla was taken, a man took into his own hands a mission to rescue her, posing as her husband and demanding her release.
The account in the British Telegraph described a similar rescue effort by one of the men captured with Mueller, "at enormous personal risk" to himself.
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Abbas, the Syrian television journalist, said Mueller's boyfriend was the one who returned in an attempt to rescue her. A spokeswoman confirmed that the family understood the boyfriend had returned to Islamic State to free her, claiming Mueller was his wife.
But for some reason, Mueller denied that she was married, foiling her own rescue, according to Gosar and a family spokeswoman. It is unknown why, but perhaps Mueller didn't realize her boyfriend was the one making the claim.
Abbas said mutual friends from the Syrian-expatriate organization Union of Syrians Abroad told him that the boyfriend had been taken prisoner by Islamic State while searching for Mueller in Syria.
"He again went inside Syria to look for Kayla," Abbas said. "(ISIL) arrested him for the second time and after two months liberated him."
The boyfriend posted on Facebook in January 2014 that he had been liberated once more.
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"After 2 months in ISIS prisons ... im (sic) free again," he wrote.
Abbas said he asked the man for an interview, but the boyfriend declined, saying that he couldn't talk because negotiations were underway for Mueller, who was still in captivity.
The boyfriend later talked to a German television station about his captivity. Though he did not mention Mueller, he said he was thrown into a prison block with American journalist James Foley.
U.S. military officials tried to save Foley, along with other captives, in a failed operation the following summer. Mueller, officials now say, was included as a target of that rescue mission. But it's unclear if Mueller was in the same camp as her boyfriend during his second imprisonment. Foley was beheaded by Islamic State in August 2014.
Di Giovanni, the Newsweek editor, said Mueller had a bright smile and radiated energy that seemed out of place in the somber city where they met for coffee so close to a war zone.
While di Giovanni admired Mueller's passion, she worried.
"Saving the world," Di Giovanni said, "is a very big thing to put on a young person's shoulders."
Contributing: Yihyun Jeong, The Arizona Republic.
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